What is Sexy?

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Good afternoon, y’all!

I hope everyone is having a fabulous day and enjoying the holiday season so far.

So, I have a question for y’all… What IS sexy?

I mean just because something is visually arousing, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s sexy…right? Or does it?

For me, I love explicit and direct language. I find it incredibly sexy…but there are lots of women who don’t. One of my best friends can’t stand the “P” word, in reference to a woman’s vagina, and truthfully it’s one of my favorites! When I write, trust me, it’s in there!

When it comes to pictures, though, I think I’m more of a less is more kind of gal. But even if the picture is incredibly explicit, I like it to have a sensual vibe to it. So it’s not necessarily the act that’s being portrayed in the picture, it’s the vibe behind it. I want it to be passionate, not just, “Oh, look what’s in her mouth.”

The same with what I read/write. I love it to be explicit, maybe even downright raunchy…but not because I just want to read about sex. It’s because I like exploring that side of the characters. I love it when the hero just has to be inside the heroine or he’ll go insane. And it goes both ways. I want to know she can’t go another second without the feeling of him inside her mouth. I find that need and desire incredibly sexy.

So I’m asking you that question. What do you find sexy? And why? What makes it sexy to you? I really want to know.

We’ll also be talking about this in my FB group tomorrow, so if you aren’t already a part of it and want to be, leave me a comment or send me a message on one of my social media sites.

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Love y’all! *kisses*

 

p.s. Now THIS is a sexy picture… 😉

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